About this deal
You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea. Have you ever thought, I can't keep doing this—something has to change? Good Boundaries and Goodbyes was born out of Lysa's own personal struggles with boundaries, extensive theological research, and therapeutic experiences that transformed the way she defined and pursued healthy relationships. Or, I've tried everything to fix this relationship but nothing is working—I fear I'm becoming someone I don't even like? Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is. Or even, I love this person, but this is starting to feel impossible?
- Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you based on how responsible they'll be with that access.
- Overcome the frustrating cycle of ineffective boundary-setting with realistic scripts and practical strategies to help you communicate, keep, and implement healthier patterns.
- Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.
- Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.
- Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized scriptures that perpetuate unhealthy dynamics in difficult relationships.
- Be equipped to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive and is no longer sustainable.
Reviews
ShineLiz
Many Christians feel that to be Christlike means to be a doormat and allow others to mistreat or use them. I also appreciate the various scenarios she uses and how we can identify with them and apply her suggestions. I only wish I had this book a few years ago. The media could not be loaded.
Taylore
I recommend woman to by Lisa book. i will continue to use this book as a tool to help in dealing with relationships and getting them to a healthy place.
Stanimal Family
She shares honestly about her life and used her life experiences to teach. I encourage you to not just read the book but also do the work to become a better version of yourself. Pick up and check it out.
Celicia Hughes
you'll see what I mean! A 4yr old and a 16 month old.
Felicia Holmes
and it's definitely not a one and done. you'll want to read and reference this book many times and it's worth a share! ! I loved how at the end of every chapter her counselor gave his perspective.
Sherri and Ken Sager
What I love more is her taken us back to the basis with is God's Word. Lysa nails it again! This book is full of wisdom.